Questions and Answers About the Problem of Compulsive Gambling
JWGA-039
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- December 1977
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Later Questions and Answers pamphlet dated December 1977.
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a Wh com i lu 7 a Yee i on ae FORWARD Gamblers Anonymous is a fellowship of over four thousand men and women who have joined together to do something about their own gambling problem and to help other compulsive gamblers do the same. This pamphlet represents an effort by its members to answer some of the specific questions that have been asked about the nature of compulsive gambling and the G.A. Fellowship. After reading this pamphlet you may have further questions that seem unanswered in this brief summary. If there is a G.A. group close to you we suggest you contact its members for additional information. If no G.A. group ts near you, please feel free to write to... GAMBLERS ANONYMOUS P.O, Box 17173 Los Angeles, Calif. 90017 G.A. Publishing Co. Los Angeles, Calif. First Edition June 1962 - Rev. March 1967 (alii nie ta i ne $i nie Sac nla Prong sli ten COMPULSIVE GAMBLING AND GAMBLERS ANONYMOUS What is Compulsive Gambling? There are many and varying interpretations of compulsive gambling. The explanation that seems most acceptable to G.A. members is that compulsive gambling is an illness, progressive in its nature, which can never be cured, but can be arrested. Before coming to G.A. many compulsive gamblers thought cf themselves as morally week — or at times — just plain “no good”. The G.A. concept is that the compulsive gambler is really a very sick person who can recover if he or she will follow, to the best of his or her ability, a simple program that has proved successful for hundreds of other men and women with a similar problem, What is the First Thing a Compulsive Gambler . Ought to do In Order to Stop Gambling? He or she needs to be willing to accept the fact that he or she is in the grip of a progressive illness and ought to have a desire to get well. Our experience has shown that the G.A. program will always work for any person who has a desire to stop gambling. However, it will seldom work for the man or woman who cannot, or will not, squarely face the facts about this illness. How Can I Tell if I am a Compulsive Gambler? Only you can make that decision. Most people turn to G.A. when they become willing to admit that gambling has them licked. Also in G.A. a compulsive gambler is described as a person whose gambling has caused growing and continuing problems in any de- partment of his life. Many G.A. members went though terrifying experi- ences before they were ready to accept help. Others faced with a slow, subtle deterioration which finally brought them to the point of admitting defeat. Can a Compulsive Gambler Ever Gamble Normally Again? The first small bet to a problem gambler is like the first small drink to an alcoholic. Sooner or later they fall back into the same old destructive pattern. Once compulsive gamblers have crossed the invis- ible line into irresponsible uncontrolled gambling, they never seem to regain control. After abstaining a few months, some of our members have tried some small bet experimentation, always, with disastrous results. The old obsession inevitably returned. Our G.A, experience seems to point to these alterna- tives: To gamble, risking progressive deterioration, or not to gamble, and develop a spiritual way of life. Does This Mean I Can’t Even Participate in a Little Penny Ante Game or a World Series Pool? It means exactly that a stand has to be made some- where and G.A. members have found the first bet is the one to avoid even though it may be as little as matching for a cup of coffee. Why Can’t a Compulsive Gambler Simply Use His Will Power to Stop Gambling? We believe that most compulsive gamblers, if they are honest, will recognize their lack of power to solve certain problems. When it comes to gambling, we have known many problems gamblers who could abstain for long stretches, but caught off guard — and under the rigrt set of circumstances —- they started gambling without thought of the consequences. The defenses they relied upon through willpower alone gave way before some trivial reason for placing a bet. We have found that willpower and self-knowledge will not help in those mental blank spots, but adherence to spiritual principles seem to solve our problems. Most of us feel that a belief in a Power greater than ourselves is neces- sary in order for us to sustain a desire to refrain from gambling. Do G.A, Members Go into Gambling Places to Help Former Members Who Are Still Gambling? Often, families and friends of there people have asked us to intercede but we have never been able to be of any real help. Actually, sometimes we felt we retarded a member’s eventual recovery by giving him this unsolicited attention. It all goes back to the basic principle that a gambler ought to want help before he is approached by us. I Only Go on Gambling Binges Periodically. Do I Need G.A.? Only you can determine whether or not, or how much, you need G.A. However, most periodic gamblers who have joined G.A. tell us that, though their gam- bling binges were periodic, the intervals between were not periods of constructive thinking. Symptomatic of these periods were nervousness, irritability, frustra- tion, indecision and a continued breakdown in personal relationships. These same people have often found the G.A. program the answer to the elimination of char- acter defects and a guide to spiritual progress in their lives. If I Join G.A. Won’t Everyone Know I Am a Compulsive Gambler? Most people made quite a name for themselves as full-fledged gamblers by the time they turned to G.A. Their gambling was not usually a well kept secret. It would then be unusual if the good news of their abstinence from gambling did not cause comment. However, no disclosure of any affiliation with G.A. can rightfully be made by anyone but the member himself. Even then, it should be done in such a way that will work no hardship on the G.A. fellowship. If I Stop Gambling Won’t It Make It Difficult for Me to Keep Some Desirable Business and Social Contacts? We think not. Most of the world’s work of any consequence is done without the benefit of monetary wagering. Many of our leaders in business, industry and professional life have attained great success with- out knowing one card from another or which way the horses run around the track. In the area of social relationships, the newcomer will soon find a keen appreciation of the many pleasant and stimulating activities available — far removed from anything that is remotely associated with gambling. How Does a Person Stop Gambling Through the G.A. Program? The compulsive gamblers do this by creating a pro- gressive personality change within themselves. This can be accomplished by having faith in — and following — the basic concepts of the G.A, Recovery Program. There are no short cuts in gaining this faith and understanding. To recover from one of the most baffling, insidious, compulsive addictions will require diligent effort. Honesty, Open-mindedness and Will- ingness are the key words in our recovery. Can a Person Recover by Himself by Reading G.A. Literature or Medical Books on the Problem of Compulsive Gambling? Sometimes, but not usually. The G.A. program works best for the individual when it is recognized and accepted as a program involving other people. Working with other compulsive gamblers in a G.A. group, the individual seems to find the necessary understanding and support. They are able to talk of their past experiences and present problems in an area where they are comfortable and accepted. Instead of feeling alone and misunderstood, they feel needed and accepted. Does G.A. Look Upon Compulsive Gambling as a Moral Vice? No. Is Knowing Why We Gambled Important? Not as a rule. Of the many G.A, members who have had extended psychiatric treatment, none have found a knowledge of why they. gambled to be of value insofar as stopping gambling. What, However, Are Some of the Factors That Might Cause a Person to Become a Compulsive Gambler? _G.A. members, in considering this perplexing ques- tion, feel these are some of the possible reasons: 1. INABILITY AND UNWILLINGNESS TO AC- CEPT REALITY. Hence, the escape into the dream world of gambling. 2. EMOTIONAL INSECURITY. Here, a compulsive gambler finds he or she is emotionally comfortable only when “in action”. It is not uncommon to hear a G.A. member say, “The only place I really felt like I belong was sitting at the poker table. There I felt secure and comfortable. No great demands were made upon me. I knew I was destroying myself; yet, at the same time, I had a certain sense of security.” 3. IMMATURITY. A desire to have all the good things in life without any great effort on their part seems the common character pattern of the problem gamblers. Many G.A. members accept the fact that they felt they could avoid mature responsibility through wagering on the spin of a wheel or the turn of a card; the struggle to escape responsibility finally became a subconscious obsession. Also, compulsive gamblers seem to have a strong inner urge to be a “big shot” and need to have a feel- ing of being all powerful. They are willing to do any- thing (often of an anti-social nature) to maintain the image of themselves that they want others to see, Then, too, there is a theory that compulsive gam- blers subconsciously want to lose to punish themselves. There is some evidence among G.A. members that seems to support this theory. What is the Dream World of the Compulsive Gambler? This is a rather common characteristic of compul- sive gamblers. They spend a lot of time creating images of the great and wonderful things they are going to do just as soon as they make the big score. ec nn it They often see themselves as quite philanthropic and charming people. They may dream of providing their family and friends with new cars, mink coats and other luxuries. They picture themselves leading pleasant, gracious lives made possible by the huge sums of money they will accrue from their “system”. Servants, penthouses, charming friends, nice clothes, yachts, and world tours are a few of the wonderful things that are just around the corner when they finally make the “big killing”. Pathetically, however, there never seems to be a big enough winning to make even the smallest dream come true. When compulsive gamblers succeed, they gamble to dream still greater dreams. When they fail, they gamble in recklnes desperation and the depths of their misery are fathomless as their dream world comes crashing down. Sadly, they will struggle back, dream more dreams, and of course suffer more misery. No one can convince them that their great schemes will not someday come true. Compulsive gamblers believe they will; without this dream world, life for them would not be tolerable. Isn’t Compulsive Gambling Basically a Financial Problem? No, compulsive gambling. seems to be an emotional problem. People, in the grip of this illness, create mountains of apparently insolvable problems. Of course they do create financial problems, but they also find themselves facing martial problems, employment problems, or problems involving themselves with the law. The compulsive gamblers find friends have been lost and relatives have rejected them. Of the many serious difficulties they create for themselves, the financial problems seem the easiest to solve. When they enter G.A. and quit gambling, their income is usually increased, there is no longer the financial drain caused by their gambling, and, soon, financial pres- sures begin to disappear. The most difficult and time consuming problem that they will be facing is making that personality change within themselves. Most G.A. members look upon this as their greatest challenge. Does G.A. Want to Abolish Gambling? No. The question of abolishing gambling is a con- troversial issue, about which G.A. has no opinion. Who Can Join G.A.? Anyone who has a desire to stop gambling. There are no other rules or regulations concerning G.A. membership. How Much Does It Cost to Join G.A.? There are no assessments in connection with G.A. membership. The newcomer signs nothing and pledges nothing. However, we do have expenses relative to our group meeting and our G.A. service facilities. Since G.A. has traditionally been fully self supporting and declines outside contributions, these expenses are met through voluntary financial support by the mem- bers. Experience has shown that acceptance of these financial responsibilities is a vital part of our individ- ual and group growth process. How Does G.A. Support Its Service Centers? These facilities receive their support from groups and from individual members. The National Headquarters Office, because it is a national service center, is sup- ported by groups and members from all over the country. Local services are supported by groups and members in the areas which are served. Who Runs G.A.? G.A. is a unique spiritual movement having no central government and but little formal organization. There are no officers or executives who wield author- ity over the fellowship or the individual. Even though G.A. is an informal organization, certain jobs have to be done. In the local group someone has to be respon- sible for the meeting place, keep an accounting of the group finances, arrange for refreshments and keep in touch with local and national service centers. This means that a group needs responsible pecple to per- from these duties. In accepting these responsibilities a member may acquire a title, but titles in G.A. are used only to designate areas of service. Those who accept these responsibilities are directly accountable to those they serve. .Are There More Compulsive Gamblers in Certain Occupations Than in Others? Among G.A. members there seems to be a predom- inance of outside salesmen which is probably due to the fact that this type of employment has the least amount of personal supervision. Obviously this allows more freedom to gamble. The job backgrounds of the balance of our membership are extremely varied. It seems safe to say that compulsive gambling has noth- ing to do with the kind of work the individual does to earn a living. The problem apparently arises from an inner inbalance, not external factors. How Many Compulsive Gamblers Are There In the United States? A recent estimate by the United States Department of Public Health puts the figure at six million. What Is the G.A. Recovery Program? When a compulsive gambler applies the twelve-step recovery program in his life, his disintegration stops and his unification begins. Since these steps are basic- ally spiritua! in their concept, their practice can be- come a hghly rewarding experience. These are the steps which are suggested as a program of recovery: 1 We admitted -we were powerless over gambling —-that our lives had become unmanageable. 2 Came to believe that a Power greater than our- selves could restore us to a normal way of think- ing and living. 3 Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of this Power of our own _ under- standing. 4 Made a searching and fearless moral and fincial inventory of ourselves. 5 Admitted to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. 6 Were entirely ready to have these defects of char- acter removed. 7 Humbly asked God (of our understanding) to remove our shortcomings. 8 Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all. 9 Made direct amends to such people wherever pos- sible, except when to do so would injure them or others. 10 Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it. 11 Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for Knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out, 12 Having made an effort to practice these principles in all our affairs, we tried to carry this message to other compulsive gamblers. No one claims thesesteps are in any way original with G.A. They reflect practical experience and appli- cation of spiritual insights as recorded by thoughtful men in many ages. Their greatest importance lies in the fact that they work. They enable us and thousands of others to lead happy productive lives. They repre- sent the foundation upon which our society has been built. They were given to us freely, for which we are grateful. What Is the Unity Program? Unity is the most precious quality our society posses. Our lives and the lives of .all to come depend squarely upon it. Yet unity in G.A, cannot automatic- ally sustain itself. Like personal recovery it demands honesty, open mindedness, and above all, vigilance. In the words of the great patriot Benjamin Franklin, “We must hang together, or assuredly we shall all hang separately.” So there can be no sacrifice too great if it will strengthen our essential unity. In maintaining unity we have begun to traditionally practice the following principals: 1 Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon G.A. unity. 2 Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern. 3 The only requirement for G.A. membership is a desire to stop gambling. 4 Each group should be self-governing except in matters affecting other groups or G.A. as a whole. 5 G.A.’s primary purpose is to stop gambling and to carry our message to the compulsive gambler who still suffers. 6 G.A, ought never endorse, finance or lend the G.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose. 7 Every G.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions. 8 Gamblers Anonymous should remain forever non- professional, but our service centers may employ special workers. 9 G.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve. 10 G.A. has no opinion on outside issues; hence the G.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy. 11 Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, films and television. 12 Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of the Unity program, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities. Why Are G.A. Members Anonymous? Anonymity has great practical value in maintaining unity within our fellowship. Through its practice at the level of press, radio, films and television we have eliminated the possibility of fame and recognition being given to the individual member; hence, we have not been faced with any great internal struggles for power and prestige which would prove highly detri- mental to our essential unity. Anonymity also has great value in attracting new members who initially might feel there is a stigma attached to the problem. Therefore, we guarantee the newcomer as much anonymity as he chooses. More importantly, we are beginning to realize that anonymity has tremendous spiritual significance. It represents a powerful reminder that we need always place principles above personalities. Our survival as individuals demands that we re- nounce personal] glorification . ..so our G.A. move- ment not only advocates but tries to practice true humility and it is through greater humility that we will be able to live in peace and security for all the years to come. Is G.A. a Religious Society? No. G.A. is composed of people from many religious faiths along with agnostics and atheists. Since mem- bership in G.A. requires no particular religious belief as a condition of membership, it cannot be described as a religious society. The G.A. recovery program is based on acceptance of certain spiritual values but the principal member is free to interpret these prin- ciples as he chooses. As it is Used in G.A., What is the Meaning of the Word Spiritual? Simply stated, the word can be said to describe that characteristic of the human mind which is marked by the highest and finest qualities such as generosity, honesty, tolerance and humility. Inasmuch as the G.A. fellowship advocates acceptance of these prin- ciples as a way of life, it can thus be said that G.A. is a spiritual fellowship. GAMBLERS ANONYMUUS QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS ABOUT THE. PROBLEM -OF COMPULSIVE GAMBLING AND THE G. A. RECOVERY PROGRAM te =
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Questions and Answers About the Problem of Compulsive Gambling, December 1977, JWGA-039, The Jim Willis & Early Gamblers Anonymous Collection, Recovery Speakers.
