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DON’T FORGET YOUR POST The Post Office will not forward copies unless you pa extra postage and we cannot replace lost copies. 36 PLEASE ... at least six weeks before the first issue to goto the new addre ‘SS, Send us your ne ing postal zone, your o! copy. With SERVICE ADJUSTMENT requests send us lat- est mailing labels including thosefrom duplicate copies. POST Subscription Service, Philadelphia 5, Pa. fa IS LSSUC: aan ARTICLES George Romney: The G.O.P.’s Fast Comer Diplomatic Delicacies ....... - He BeNneOICtINeESS\ hses ghey Gamblers Anonymous. ......... Racing’s Haunted Driver ..... . Bermuda: Where the Girls Are. . . FICTION PAartiSanvue cceteo.pecma wee tees: : Kallerton Highs aren acca ieee one Operation Lost Souls ...... DEPARTMENTS Bettersia gener. Speaking Out: Should We ee ner Die?. ReoplezonsthesWayaU piss sn ce: panion- Post: SCrptsiiweare tee scone Hazel ear esr noe cites « Ee Gitoralere ra opr ay Sty ates Alsop on Romney. In the fall of 1960 The Saturday By Stewart Alsop , By Patricia Cahn . By Ernest O. Hauser By Stanley Frank By Larry Merchant By Tom Congdon . By Michael Shaara By William Wister Haines By James Mitchell Clarke . By Vincent Collins, M.D. 15 22 30 Ad 62 73 28 36 66 “OK, George, OK. I suppose you’re right. But dam- Evening Post gave a dinner in Detroit fora group of mit, do you a/ways have to be right?” Romney had leading auto executives. Contributing editor Stew- been conspicuously right, of course, in his crusade art Alsop spoke briefly about the political scene, for the compact car, which led to the resurgence of and his remarks provoked an intense discussion American Motors. Whether he will go on being right between George Romney and an executive of an- in his newcareer as a politician remains to be seen. other automobile firm. Finally Romney’s adversary But we believe GEORGE ROMNEY: THE G.O.P.’s threw up his arms in a mock gesture of surrender Fast Comer will convince you that George Rom- and said in an almost pathetically plaintive tone: ney is Other By-Lines. Dr. Vincent Collins of Winnetka, “‘a remarkable political phenomenon.” story—in Greece, shortly after passing through the Illinois, maintains it is time for many sacrosanct section of Yugoslavia in which PARTISAN takes precepts of the medical profession to undergo ma- place... . Patricia Cahn, wife of and chief cook (Command Decision, The Winter War) worked for dito’ three years with “grunts” and “pole buddies” very began sampling diplomatic delicacies when she was_ much like those in KILLER ON HIGH. . . jor surgery... for Chicago-based associate editor Robert Cahn, . California novelist William Wister Haines . James Washington correspondent for Women’s News Mitchell Clarke, West Coast editor of Aero News, Service. .. resident of Paris and author of THE BENEDICTINES, has written Post articles on three other Roman . Contributing editor Ernest O. Hauser, makes his Post debut with OPERATION Lost SouLs. The Cover.oh, no! He can’t expect to show the Catholic brotherhoods—the Dominicans, the house at this hour. But he does. Bright Eyes the Jesuits and the Franciscans. . . . New York free- realtor just happened to be nearby with these nice lance reporter Stanley Frank says he gambled more folks and he’s sorry he didn’t make an appoint- writing and research time on GAMBLERS ANONY- ment, but as longas he’s here would it be all right if mous than on any of the 138 other Post articles he showed them around? That’s Bright Eyes’ story. he has written. ... column for the Philadelphia Daily News. ... As- Larry Merchant writes a sports But the glint which artist George Hughes has painted in Bright Eyes’ eyes suggests an ulterior sociate editor Tom Congdon, whom we dispatched motive: Bright Eyes theorized that this surprise to Bermuda fora report on frolicsome Ivy Leaguers, is Yale (A.B,, 53) and Columbia (M.S., °56). .. . attack, when the real estate is in a real state, will fluster both Alice Bluegown and the nice young Michael Shaara teaches creative writing at Florida folks. Thereupon they will sign an agreement of State University, wrote PARTISAN—his first Post sale just to terminate the mutual embarrassment. Modeled after where psychia STANLEY FRANK By Sher ) g fronted forty people at the Mayfair Hotel in Los Angeles and said, “My name is Edwin. I’m a compulsive gambler. The night before I attended my first meeting of this kind eighteen months ago, my lawyer put me in a psychiatric hospital in Palo Alto. He was afraid I'd commit suicide before I was sent to prison. I had embezzled eight thousand dollars and written six thousand in bad checks to cover my gambling debts. Pre- viously I had borrowed twenty thousand from finance companies. My wife had left ae ay family had disowned me, and Ihad d business associates to get money for my gambling mai “I was thirty-four and earning twenty thousand dollars a year as the West Coast sales manager for a big outfit, but my wife and daughter lived like a family on relief. I hadn*t been solvent in fifteen years. ie ps! caer = Palo Alto said they couldn’t help me. Nobody ever had given me any hope I ei) stop gambling, ia ; = here. I eee bet a nickel sin night, and i more years I Ww ah ae paid all my debts ‘But I'll attend these meetings as long as I live, because know I'll always be a compulsive gambler at heart. I'd rather die than go through that torture again. tall, gaunt man with haggard eyes that betrayed his tension told a similar group at the 23rd Street branch of the -C.A. in New York, “My name is forged a check to get out of a jam with a bookie. I was put on probation for three years—after some of the fellows here in- God for the sentence. I’m learning how to live like a human being. My wife says she’ll come back to me with our two kids if I lick my insanity wid cnmblg, That's one bet I’m going to w Gambling: a Mental Illness Such confessions are heard every week in twenty-four cities from ers of Gamblers Anonymous, an organization with what seems to ) be the first eflectiv therapy fo - tal illness related to alcoholism ¢ and Ban diction Since 1957, when the movement was founded in Los Angeles by Jim W., an alumnus of Alcoholics Anonymous, some 7000 troubled men and women have been introduced to the G.A. program. Most of them are unwilling to admit pad need help and drop out after a few se: sions; but G.A, says it has 800 con- verts who have curbed completely their passion sg gambling. Although this seems to be a poor batting average, it is considered pi ell by psychiatrists; Alcoholics Anonymous. this trists fail in helping compulsiv e gamblers lick the habit. arch treatment aa compulsive gam- bling is hardly k n in private practice. service in promoting public awareness that obsessive gambling is a sympt deep-seated neurosis. Compulsive eam who refuse to buckle down and earn a decent living—the identical attitude to- ward chronic drunkards a generation ago, before Alcoholics Anonymous was launched. G.A. is struggling to change this public image. The urgent need for G.A. is reflected by the rapid growth of the organization in the last two years and the increasing een acal of letters received by the general ce office asking for information. (In- hie msiang be addressed to Gamblers nonymo P.O. box 17173, Los An- geles 17, Calif, or P.O. box 1498, New York, N. Y.) Local chapters, usually listed in the telephone directory, have been established in New York, Boston, Philadelphia, Chicago, Cincinnati, Mi- ami, Seattle, Las Vegas, Arlington, Vir- ginia; and in California at Los Angeles, San Francisco, Oakland, Sacramento, Hollywood, Chico, West Covine, Beverly Hills, Bakersfield, Culver City, Gardena, San Jose, Downey, Redding, Santa Bar- bara and San Mateo A comparison of G. A. with Alcoholics Anonymous underscores a significan’ point. In 1940, A.A.’s fifth year of opera- tion, it had 1500 members, G.A.’s current total. Today, A.A. enlists 300,000 of the estimated 5,850,000 men and women in the United States who lose control of themselves when they drink. Many au- thorities believe the destructive effects of read. never have met a compulsive gambler or, at least, don’t know that they have. Un- like arb addictions, gambling leaves no obvious scars. The typical victim is an engaging extrovert who tells amusing stories with a flair cultivated by ee up glib lies to borrow money to feed his betting fever. His intelligence is above average; he often earns a good salary, for a time. He grabs bar tabs, tips lay- ishly and is generous with favors for casual acquaintances. They rarely suspect his convivial front is a pathetic cover- -up of the mess he has made of his own and his sry s life. A. charges no dues or initiation fees, but it is a wry joke among veteran mem- bers that their club is the most expensive in the world to join. Individual gambling losses exceeding $100, 000 through the years are not unusual. The toll in emo- ° 5 & me =z 3 a. ° <4 ° cy A] ieee 5 $s a =. < $ % vorced, and most of the remainder are on the verge of it, Their neglected children are deeply hostile. Many oer men are facing | criminal prosecutio At a recent meeting in vi Angeles, newcomers told typically harrowing sto- Gamblers Anonymous new organization succeeds ries. A woman said her husband would di- vorce her and sue for the custody of their three children if she continued to go to Gardena, a suburb where poker parlors are permitted to operate twenty hours a y. “I've tried to keep away from that hellhole,” she cried. “Oh, God, how I've tried, but cards are like a drug to me.” A seventy-year-old man said in a heavy Greek accent, “My gambling drove my wife to her grave. Last week it drove my daughter to a mental institution.” He turned his head to muffle a sob. “I am the one they should put away. For fifty years this curse has been on me. If I can purge it from my soul, maybe I will smile again someday, like the rest of you.” May be he will, but the odds are against im. “ our experience that anyone who walks through the door has one chance in eight to get the monkey off his back,” said Jim W., a soft-spoken man of forty-nine. ““We succeed only with people who have hit rock bottom in misery and degradation. Those we fail to Teach may have goo because they're frightened or depressed, but they really don’t want to stop gambling.” Violent Urges to Bet Jim refiected for a long moment. “It’s terribly hard to give up something that’s been the entire focus of your life. I haven’t made a bet since October, 1954, but I still get violent urges to play a horse or take a flier at the crap tables in Las Vegas. Psychiatrists say compulsive gambling is a disease that is never really cured. “We Bene a man has passed ie crisis if he comes to meetings for six months, but we've had bad disappointments with backsliders. Two fellows w ‘dry’ for a year had relapses ae and they’re hooked worse than ever no When that happens, I feel like chucking the whole thing as a lost cause. And then someone who appeared to be a hopeless ase makes a complete recovery, re- viving my faith in the oldest principle in human relations: People with similar problems can help each other. G. Ss learned t © prepare members for a difficult transition from the private world of fantasy every compulsive gam- bler invents. “The gambler often concocts elaborate schemes for helping people—to justify, subconsciously, his despicable conduct,” Jim W. explained. “I alwa S was on poedical kick. At ais i wanted money “€ Then I was going to pect my rela: tives’ pile have none of my Own—to staff my hospital in Africa, At the a, ~~ I] was hallucinating like crazy, I had plans to endow a 6 founds. tion to find the cure for can “Those wild felt I was viol Spent money for an bling. Whenever we J ideas were so a to me | ating a sacred trust when | ything except gam- Ose a member who has made a sincere effort to quit gam- bling, he usually goes back to it for the mera) Ww here there’s no yesterday andes orty- -five-year-old Los Angeles woman, who must be unique in medical € thority on gambling’s insidious hold. A one time she was under psychiatric treat- ment for five pease Irma al- Lic} ing. Sagi was the hardest habit to ”’ she said. ‘“‘My other brainstorms— around after I Seago out fast, but gambling had whipped. I was like a zombie; I never heard people when they nok to me. All ven excruciating siiiical aint does is the documented case of a San Fran- after she had been delivers of a baby by C . Led ee oA i etre pemag hours until she nthe most Haat study of this obses- been by Dr. made by any Aa a ees psychiatrist Tk 1 em two years. His file of : sixty case sthigteties field oa was virtually sacenicredl until a few =< “Stated j in simple terms, a compulsive gambler has iselings ot Rooms. stem- to} centered woman who dinsGitagea’e affec- tion, intensifying the child’s sense of insecurity ae resulting i ina dependency “That $ ass ee background of many Pie, “they equate money with love higher level, Gambling i is an outbreak of prt that have accumulated since chi hoo he G.A, aes I met ata Bid meetings and SOUups therapy sessions had lost so Jim W. (right, masked by a copy of the group’s handbook) Sounded G.A. in 1957. “We succeed only with people who have hit rock bottom.” absurd id dae aan a even yokels recognize as sucker b: “Do compulsive guntles subcon- ead Hey to lose?”’ I asked Doctor Perlov se,” he replied. “Every obsessive addiction is self-destructive. The compulsive gambler wants to lose money to punish himself for using it to purchase love. He compounds his guilt by making his family suffer for his cor- rupt conduct, yet he will break his neck doing favors for total strangers to gain the approval he wants so desperately.” The technique used by G.A. for resolv- ing this conflict once was dismissed as mere autosuggestion. Psychologists now le it produces a spiritual Bate which gives members the uplift of a religious movement. Actually at the meet- ings there are many references t ie pt: ‘God directed my footsteps to ”.,,“Lthank God this iris was created to save my life.” iS Sig- nificant that very few ee gam- come affiliated with a congregation. Confessions From Members G.A. meetings open on a solemn note and make amends to everyone he has . The remainder of the session, which lasts about two hours, is devote to recitals of past experiences by mem- bers of the organization. It is impossible for someone who is not a compulsive gambler to comprehend the profound effect of this simple formula, I can only report the astonishing personal- ity changes I have seen, even within forty- eight hours. I arrived in Los Angeles the same day a man we'll call Tom came from a Migwener rn city. a man approaching forty, was so distraught when Jim W. brought him to his first meeting that he literally cringed behind his sponsor for protection, like a terrified child. Except for a few whis- pered questions to Jim, Tom did not utter a word all evening, ie nights later he was in a state of exulta A fantastic thing hae: hawnaned to me,” he shouted. “I was a compulsive gambler for twenty-two years and a miserable excuse for a human being, | lost $165,000 and three good businesses Which my wealthy father had bankrolled for me, He spent a fortune sending me lo psychiatrists—without results, “IT was at the end of my rope when | Saw a news story about G,A, That was the epee — Ea _— 44 Gamblers Anonymous | . Peer reaniZ | led after Alcoholics Anonymous, this new Org . Modeled : rs lick the habit, where psychiatrists fail in helping compulsive oamble By STANLEY FRANK he personable young executive con- | fronted forty people at the Mayfair Hotel in Los Angeles and said, “My name is Edwin. I’m a compulsive gambler. The night before I attended my first meeting of this kind eighteen months ago, my lawyer put me in a psychiatric hospital in Palo Alto. He was afraid I'd commit suicide before I was sent to prison. I had embezzled eight thousand dollars and written six thousand in bad checks to cover my gambling debts. Pre- viously I had borrowed twenty thousand from finance companies. My wife had left me, my family had disowned me, and I had lied to fifty-one friends and business associates to get money for my gambling mania. “I was thirty-four and earning twenty thousand dollars a year as the West Coast sales manager for a big outfit, but my wife and daughter lived like a family on relief. I hadn’t been solvent in fifteen years. “The psychiatrists at Palo Alto said they couldn’t help me. Nobody ever had given me any hope I could stop gambling, until I came here. I haven’t bet a nickel since that night, and in two more years I will have paid all my debts. But I’ll attend these meetings as long as I live, because I know I'll always be a compulsive gambler at heart. I'd rather die than go through that torture again.” A tall, gaunt man with haggard eyes that betrayed his tension told a similar group at the 23rd Street branch of the Y.M.C.A. in New York, “My name is Arthur. I’m a compulsive gambler. I was a mailman for fourteen years, until I forged a check to get out of a jam with a bookie. I was put on probation for three years—after some of the fellows here in- tervened for me. I'll go to prison if I gam- ble while I’m on probation, and I thank God for the sentence. I’m learning how to live like a human being. My wife says she’ll come back to me with our two kids if I lick my insanity for gambling. That’s one bet I’m going to win.” Gambling: a Mental [ness Such confessions are heard every week in twenty-four cities from members of Gamblers Anonymous, an organization with what seems to be the first effective therapy for compulsive gambling—a men- ta] illness related to alcoholism and drug addiction. Since 1957, when the movement was founded in Los Angeles by Jim W., an alumnus of Alcoholics Anonymous, some 7000 troubled men and women have been introduced to the G.A. program. Most of them are unwilling to admit they need help and drop out after a few ses- sions; but G.A. says it has 800 con- yerts who have curbed completely their passion for gambling. Although this seems to be a poor batting average, it is considered phenomenal by psychiatrists: successful treatment of compulsive gam- bling is hardly known in private practice. G.A. is also performing an important service in promoting public awareness that obsessive gambling is a symptom of deep-seated neurosis. Compulsive gam- blers generally are branded dissolute bums who refuse to buckle down and earn a decent living—the identical attitude to- ward chronic drunkards a generation ago, before Alcoholics Anonymous was launched. G.A. is struggling to change this public image. The urgent need for G.A. is reflected by the rapid growth of the organization in the last two years and the increasing number of letters received by the general service office asking for information. (In- quiries should be addressed to Gamblers Anonymous, P.O. box 17173, Los An- geles 17, Calif., or P.O. box 1498, New York, N. Y.) Local chapters, usually listed in the telephone directory, have been established in New York, Boston, Philadelphia, Chicago, Cincinnati, Mi- ami, Seattle, Las Vegas, Arlington, Vir- ginia; and in California at Los Angeles, San Francisco, Oakland, Sacramento, Hollywood, Chico, West Covine, Beverly Hills, Bakersfield, Culyer City, Gardena, San Jose, Downey, Redding, Santa Bar- bara and San Mateo. A comparison of G.A. with Alcoholics Anonymous underscores a _ significant point. In 1940, A.A.’s fifth year of opera- tion, it had 1500 members, G.A.’s current total. Today, A.A. enlists 300,000 of the estimated 5,850,000 men and women in the United States who lose control of themselves when they drink. Many au- thorities believe the destructive effects of gambling are almost as widespread. This disclosure may startle people who never have met a compulsive gambler or, at least, don’t know that they have. Un- like other addictions, gambling leaves no obvious scars. The typical victim is an engaging extrovert who tells amusing stories with a flair cultivated by dreaming up glib lies to borrow money to feed his betting fever. His intelligence is above average; he often earns a good salary, for a time. He grabs bar tabs, tips lav- ishly and is generous with favors for casual acquaintances. They rarely suspect his convivial front is a pathetic cover-up of the mess he has made of his own and his family’s life, G.A. charges no dues or initiation fees, but it is a wry joke among veteran mem- bers that their club is the most expensive in the world to join. Individual gambling losses exceeding $100,000 through the years are not unusual. The toll in emo- tional bankruptcy is devastating. About one third of the applicants have been di- vorced, and most of the remainder are on the verge of it. Their neglected children are deeply hostile. Many of the men are facing criminal prosecution. At a recent meeting in Los Angeles, newcomers told typically harrowing sto- ries. A woman said her husband would di- vorce her and sue for the custody of their three children if she continued to go to Gardena, a suburb where poker parlors are permitted to operate twenty payht day. “I’ve tried to keep away from tna hellhole,” she cried. “Oh, God, how lve tried, but cards are like a drug to me. A seventy-year-old man said in a heavy Greek accent, ““My gambling drove my wife to her grave. Last week it drove my daughter to a mental institution. He turned his head to muffle a sob. “I am the one they should put away. For fifty years this curse has been on me. If I can purge it from my soul, maybe I will smile again someday, like the rest of you.” ; Maybe he will, but the odds are against him. “It’s our experience that anyone who walks through the door has one chance in eight to get the monkey off his back,”’ said Jim W., a soft-spoken man of forty-nine. ‘“We succeed only with people who have hit rock bottom in misery and degradation. Those we fail to reach may have good intentions temporarily because they’re frightened or depressed, but they really don’t want to stop gambling.” Violent Urges to Bet Jim reflected for a long moment. “‘It’s terribly hard to give up something that’s been the entire focus of your life. I haven’t made a bet since October, 1954, but I still get violent urges to play a horse or take a flier at the crap tables in Las Vegas. Psychiatrists say compulsive gambling is a disease that is never really cured. “We figure a man has passed the crisis if he comes to meetings for six months, but we’ve had bad disappointments with backsliders. Two fellows who had been ‘dry’ for a year had relapses recently, and they’re hooked worse than ever now. When that happens, I feel like chucking the whole thing as a lost cause. And then someone who appeared to be a hopeless case makes a complete recovery, re- viving my faith in the oldest principle in human relations: People with similar problems can help each other.” G.A. has learned to prepare members for a difficult transition from the private world of fantasy every compulsive gam- bler invents. “The gambler often concocts elaborate schemes for helping people—to Justify subconsciously, his despicable conduct ” Jim W. explained. ‘‘] always was ona medical kick, At first ] wanted money to becomea doctor like Albert Schweitzer Then | was going to educate my rela- tives’ children—I have none of i Own—to staff my hospital in Africa re the end, when | was hallucinating like crazy, I had plans to endow a found: tion to find the cure for cancer, ba _ Those wild ideas were so real to me | felt I was violating a sacred trust when | spent money for anything except gam- ing. Whenever we lose a member who ation succeeds has made a sincere effort to quit gam. bling, he usually goes back to it for the same reason. He escapes to his dream world, where there’s no yesterday and no tomorrow.” A forty-five-year-old Los Angeles woman, who must be unique in medica| literature, spoke with hair-raising ay. thority on gambling’s insidious hold. At one time she was under psychiatric treat. ment for five addictions—narcotics, al- coholism, obesity, nymphomania and gambling. “Gambling was the hardest habit to lick,” she said. ““My other brainstorms— the booze, dope, overeating and running around after I was divorced—were straightened out fast, but gambling had me whipped. I was like a zombie; I never heard people when they spoke to me. All I had on my mind was horses.” Even excruciating physical pain does not deter a gambler craving action. There is the documented case of a San Fran- cisco woman who went to Reno a week after she had been delivered of a baby by Cesarean section and played slot machines for fourteen consecutive hours until she had a hemorrhage. The most definitive study of this obses- sive behavior has been made by Dr. Harry Perlowitz, a Brooklyn psychiatrist who gave G.A.’s New York members free treatment in group therapy for nearly two years. His file of sixty case histories is the most extensive, by far, in a field that was virtually unexplored until a few years ago. “Stated in simple terms, a compulsive gambler has feelings of rejection stem- ming from early childhood,” Doctor Perlowitz said. ‘Every one I’ve ever seen grew up in a disturbed family environ- ment. His parents were divorced or so incompatible that he was denied the love a child needs for emotional stability. Another common characteristic is a Strong suggestion of the Oedipus com- plex—undue attachment for the mother. Usually she was a domineering, self- centered woman who discouraged affec- lon, intensifying the child’s sense of insecurity and resulting in a dependency relationship which has continued into adult life,” That's the classic background of many neurotic people. Why do some of them turn to gambling? ‘To buy love,” Doctor Perlowitz ex- Plained. “They equate money with love because they have no confidence they can maintain personal relationships on 4 higher level. Gambling is an outbreak of anxieties that have accumulated since childhood,” Pa raised a fascinating point. The 4A, members I met at a dozen meetings and group-therapy sessions had lost S° fonsistently that the law of averages Seemed to have been revoked for them. Small Wonder, In reminiscing, they al- luded constantly to bets on long shots and pl b Tt da th co wl in; Di we nil ble aft co) ( wil in co} ma abl his hin cat) mo anc har whi to 1 ber: ni acc proj can ity ¢ eigh sam aM T disti his f behi a ter pere: utter he w me,” gamt mise lost § Wwhict for n to ps) so) | sawa Jim W. (right, masked by a copy of the group’s handbook) founded G.A. in 1957, “We succeed only with people who have hit rock bottom.” absurd propositions that even yokels recognize as sucker bait. “Do compulsive gamblers subcon- sciously play to lose?” I asked Doctor Perlowitz. “Yes, of course,” he replied. “Every obsessive addiction is self-destructive, The compulsive gambler wants to lose money to punish himself for using it to purchase love. He compounds his guilt by making his family suffer for his cor- rupt conduct, yet he will break his neck doing favors for total strangers to gain the approval he wants so desperately.” The technique used by G.A. for resolv- ing this conflict once was dismissed as mere autosuggestion. Psychologists now concede it produces a spiritual unity which gives members the uplift of a religious movement, Actually at the meet- ings there are many references to the Deity—‘God directed my footsteps to G.A.”... “I thank God this organization was created to save my life.” It is sig- nificant that very few compulsive gam- blers previously have attended church: after joining G.A., they frequently be- come affiliated with a congregation. Confessions From Members G.A. meetings open on a solemn note with an oral reading of the twelve steps in the recovery program, which Jim W. copied directly from Alcoholics Anony- mous. Each member admits he was un- able to control gambling and professes his belief that a higher power can restore him to a normal way of life. After that catharsis, he promises to take a searching moral and financial inventory of himself and make amends to everyone he has harmed. The remainder of the session, which lasts about two hours, is devoted to recitals of past experiences by mem- bers of the organization. It is impossible for someone who is not a compulsive gambler to comprehend the profound effect of this simple formula. I can only report the astonishing personal- ity changes I have seen, even within forty- eight hours. I arrived in Los Angeles the same day a man we'll call Tom came from a Midwestern city. Tom, a man approaching forty, was so distraught when Jim W. brought him to his first meeting that he literally cringed behind his sponsor for protection, like a terrified child. Except for a few whis- pered questions to Jim, Tom did not utter a word all evening. Two nights later he was in a state of exultation. “A fantastic thing has happened to me,” he shouted. “I was a compulsive gambler for twenty-two years and a miserable excuse for a human being. | lost $165,000 and three good businesses which my wealthy father had bankrolled for me. He spent a fortune sending me to psychiatrists—without results. “I was at the end of my rope when I saw a news story about G.A. That was the first. act of fate that brought me here. Did you read about the plane that crashed in Chicago a few days ago killing all seventy- eight people on board? I was a standby on that flight.” He raised a clenched fist. “God kept me off that plane so I could be saved by G.A. I hope He strikes me dead if I ever make another bet.” Gamblers’ Neglected Wives Weekly chapter meetings are con- ducted in two adjoining rooms, but they are at opposite poles psychologically. In one room there is a heady atmosphere of camaraderie and redemption. Next door, resentment and skepticism are the pre- vailing moods. There the members’ wives are told how they can help to implement G.A.’s recovery program—but the women frequently are also in urgent need of guidance to solve their own emotional problems aggravated by years of neglect, humiliation and privation. The women were remarkably out- spoken in discussing their anxieties and intimate details of their marriages at sessions I was permitted to attend. Some wondered whether their bad judgment in choosing a husband betrayed flaws in their own characters. Others berated themselves for driving the men to gam- bling with their nagging and financial demands. (These self-accusations often are groundless. A compulsive gambler usually is hooked by the habit long before he is married.) Fully 80 percent of the women I polled said they would have got divorces long ago except for their children. Every one was bitter against her husband for shirk- ing his responsibilities and exposing her to the mortification of having to ask relatives and friends for money to pay bills. Numerous references to the break- down of marital relations, always a sequel of compulsive gambling, reflected deep affronts to femininity which would not be forgotten quickly—if ever. The withdrawal pains from gambling can be as severe as an alcoholic’s abrupt abstinence from liquor. The urge to make a bet is so insistent that all sorts of dodges are practiced to fight off temptation. Sports pages of newspapers are thrown away immediately to avoid looking at the racing entries. Nickels and dimes are spent needlessly to thwart sudden im- pulses to call a bookie. Since compulsive gamblers rarely cul- tivate hobbies or intellectual interests, they are at loose ends after giving up the only activity that ever absorbed them. Many drift back to betting in sheer bore- dom, but a sizable number transfer their obsessive drive to G.A. Some zealots in every chapter spend several nights a week indoctrinating applicants, riding herd on faltering members and publicizing the organization. Jim W. has given up his construction business (‘‘I never was suc- cessful, anyway’’) and has taken a part- time job as a bookkeeper, so that he can devote thirty hours a week to meetings, setting up new chapters and answering the more than 2000 letters that he re- ceives annually. Although G.A. does not get as many emergency calls as Alcoholics Anony- mous from overwrought members during the tapering-off period, its troubleshoot- ers put in more time behind the scenes, straightening out the incredibly tangled affairs of newcomers. Every new member is so deeply in debt that he sees gambling as his only chance to get even. If G.A. does not show him another way out of his difficulties, he will continue to gamble with mounting desperation. The first step is to compile a list of all his creditors and the court orders against him. One rule is adhered to rigidly: A fugitive from a criminal charge must sur- render to the district attorney, or G.A. will have nothing to do with him. If he agrees, the organization uses its good offices to have him put on probation so that he can repay the money he has em- bezzled, stolen or swindled. The troubleshooters tackle the ticklish job of persuading creditors to waive civil suits and salary garnishments and accept small, long-term remittances on debts. This may involve negotiating with a dozen banks and finance companies that have given a man loans. The chances are he also owes money all over town for mer- chandise bought on the installment plan and pawned for ready cash. The coopera- tion G.A. receives when it explains the circumstances to businessmen is hearten- ing. Last year the New York and Los An- geles chapters were rebuffed by reputable firms on less than thirty of 400 appeals for special consideration. After the immediate financial pressures on aman are relieved, a committee draws up his budget for the long haul. As much as 60 per cent of his weekly salary may be earmarked for payments on his debts. Al- lowances are made for men with large families and small incomes, but they are required to give at least twenty dollars a week tocreditors, an obligation that means years of grinding penny-pinching. One case I saw from start to solution in New York involyed routine G.A, proce- dure. A twenty-six-year-old jewelry sales- man we'll call Harry, who had been in hiding to evade arrest for forgery, ap- peared at a special meeting arranged by his wife. Harry had opened a bank ac- count with a phony check for $2000, then immediately cashed fifty-two small checks ring the paddoc totaling $4000 at branches of the bank before his spurious deposit bounced. The money went faster than the horses gine ing his bets. He then bought with 3 checks about $1000 worth of cameras which he hocked, to keep in action. Harry’s wife burst into tears when he entered the room. During the two weeks he had been on the lam, he had developed a nervous tic and a stammer. A three-man board informed Harry they would help him only on condition that he surrendered to the D.A. the next day. . G.A. was instrumental in getting him released on $500 bail, an.extremely low bond considering his felonies. After wait- ing two weeks to see whether Harry was making a sincere effort to reform, the board called eight companies and told them Harry would repay the money he owed in monthly installments if they dropped the charges against him. All eight agreed to play ball. Not all of Harry’s troubles were cleared up so easily. News of his scrape black- balled him in the jewelry trade, forcing him to take a job driving a truck for eighty dollars a week. He then was sum- moned to another conference, where he was told he would have to pay back $150 a month until his debts were squared. “If you say so, that’s the way it’s got to be,” Harry said. The court gave him a suspended sentence and put him on pro- bation for three years. That was six months ago. At last report Harry was meeting his payments punctually. Gambling as Escape Probably no movement based on a con- cept of group dependency ever started with a smaller nucleus. Jim W. comprised the entire “group” for three years. Jim had been a compulsive gambler all his adult life, and he was also a heavy drinker. In 1950 he joined Alcoholics Anonymous, and a year later, when his drinking was curbed, he married a member of A.A. Soon, however, he resorted to more vio- lent bouts of gambling to escape the re- sponsibility of supporting a wife. The guilt that had been building up in him exploded one night in October, 1954, He was at a crap table in Las Vegas with his last twenty-five dollars when he was overwhelmed by a feeling of repugnance for himself. He drove back to Los An- geles and told his wife he was with gambling. “I had heard that story before,” she says, “but I believed him, Ten years in A.A, had taught me to recognize the turning point in a compulsive person who has reached the bottom of his misery,” Jim had suffered no great distress in giving up liquor, but the ordeal of getting through ; Piehit, canning theit dop LRA ee i ; ke at a California trac kK. Compulsive horseplay a psychiatrist, make order to punish themse sheets, railbirds ers, SAYS sucker bets in lves by losing. through a day without the stimulus of betting was much worse than he expected, His wife suggested he adopt A.A.’s tech- nique of talking out his tensions with an- other gambler. He persuaded th ree horse- players on his street to meet him in a tool shop once a week. They quit after two sessions. He then went through a period of two years, trying to persuade others to join him in group therapy. Finally in 1957 Jim won his first sincere disciple. Sam, a young insurance salesman on the verge of a nervous collapse from the debts and domestic. troubles piling up on him, grasped Jim’s philosophy, and he stopped gambling. They met every day to discuss the formation of a group, but after four months that objective still seemed remote. A tragedy led, in roundabout fashion, to the big breakthrough. Paul Coates, of the now defunct Los Angles Mirror, do- ing a follow-up story on a gambler who had been driven to suicide by debts, called Sam, who had known the man. When Sam mentioned his association with Jim, Coates wrote a column advising readers interested in combating compulsive gam- bling to get in touch with Jim. Later he did a TV program, with Jim and Sam ap- pearing as masked guests. The show brought a response of fifty letters. Jim hired a room and informed everyone who had written him that a meeting would be held on September 13, 1957. Five persons showed up; the follow- ing week only three returned. But on its first anniversary G.A. was safely off the ground with forty members. Achapter in San Francisco was launched in 1958 by a public-relations man with valuable entrees to national publicity. The first story he placed, in a syndicated Sunday newspaper supplement, resulted in a handsome dividend. A compulsive gambler in New York, who also was a member of A.A., got in touch with Jim, asking for advice on starting a branch. On January 29, 1960, forty-seven persons responded to a brief notice of a meeting in the New York Daily News. The move- ment in New York has expanded into five chapters. During the past two years it has spread to many other cities. Several foundations have offered to subsidize G.A., but Jim steadfastly de- Clines such assistance. ‘The minute we had money there would be a temptation to help members out of jams, and that would be the end of us,” he explained. “A compulsive gambler must work out his reformation the hard way—strictly through his own efforts. If things are made easy for him, he'll go right back to the horse tracks and the gambling tables.” THE END ee COGS A ite hie 5 You can take color movies and slides that capture a breath-taking range of beauty—from the lush red of a tropical flower to the mist-softened shades of a morning by the shore. 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Related records and versions
- JWGA-021 ↔ JWGA-022: same article; alternate physical copy
Preferred archival citation
The Saturday Evening Post – "Gamblers Anonymous" – second physical copy, May 26, 1962, JWGA-022, The Jim Willis & Early Gamblers Anonymous Collection, Recovery Speakers.
